Why Communication is Key To Successful Tantric Relationships

Do you feel appreciated, respected and loved?

  • What do you deem to be the most important thing for happy, healthy, lasting relationships?
  • Why do you think couples so often neglect it?
If you happen to be in a relationship where your needs are unmet, you must first identify those needs yourself.
If you cannot meet them yourself, how can you ever expect another to meet them?
You must first examine those needs you feel are not being met.
 

  • Do you feel unappreciated, misunderstood or disrespected?
  • Do your unmet needs appear as a recurring theme in your relationships.
Once you determine which of your needs have been unsatisfied, do not throw a hissy fit or pity party
Rather, celebrate the fact that you are one step closer to achieving emotional fulfillment.


 

Now, ask yourself the following:
  • What emotional need(s) would you like to have met?
  • In what relationships is this need being met?
  • In what relationships is this need not being met?
  • How does it feel when this need is not met?
  • How does it feel when this need is met?
  • Are you meeting this need in yourself? If so, how?
  • Are you meeting this need in others? For example, do you regularly express appreciation for others or hold back your expression of it?
  • How can you fulfill this need in yourself?
  • What words would you like to hear in order to fulfill this need?
  • What actions would you like to experience in order to fulfill this need? For example, would receiving flowers or a small gift make you feel appreciated?
Once you clarify your emotional needs, sit down and talk to your partner about why meeting your needs in the relationship is vital. Approach the conversation from a perspective of wanting to express and share more love rather than highlighting a problem or whining about the relationship. Indeed, you don’t just want to get your emotional needs met, you also want to meet those of your partner   so that you both experience fulfillment. If you have known this person for a while, you  can likely ascertain their needs are based upon the nature of their words when you are arguing Still, even if you know what your partner’s needs are, let them explain in their own words.
Clearly, you are not responsible for each other’s needs. Never assume that because another loves you, they know how to treat you. Love does not create instant mind-reading abilities,  so do ask and share. Ask your partner how they want to be treated and then openly share how you want to be treated in return. Happily, once you recognize your crucial emotional needs and those of your partner, you can create a concrete plan so you can both get those needs met and feel more fulfilled.
After all, everyone on earth just wants to be loved.
When we know how to love each other, we can create the requisite space for long-lasting, joyful, harmonious relationships.
Your first steps towards achieving happiness is open, loving communication.

 

I am  Dakini Devi Bliss,  a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Inimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A gifted, lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy and Reiki. In my multiple-disciplined approach,  I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state.

My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.

You can contact me through my  website or call  613 878-8179 to book a session.